Make Great Love for Hours with Tantra

Tantra is a spiritual tradition that originated in India some 4,000 years ago. It is a way of life that celebrates and strives for the union of body, mind and spirit. Tantra is an ancient way of looking at the world. In the Tantric view, all life and every aspect of creation including sexuality is celebrated and held as sacred. The Tantric traditions of ancient India and other cultures viewed sexual energy as the source of life itself and as one of the most powerful forces available to us as human beings. Sexual ecstasy was seen as a taste of the divine. In these sex positive cultures, sophisticated lovemaking skills were developed and taught as a science and as an art.

So there is no need to convert to a tantric lifestyle, but you would like to try some techniques that will enable you to last longer, orgasm harder and that enable you to keep your pleasure at its precipice while you take your partner over the edge again and again? With a few of these tips, you and your partner will extend and expand the peak of your sexual ecstasy...

Make up your goal

Regular lovemaking has a goal - orgasm. If you both come at the same time you've done it really, really well. If neither of you come at all you may as well have spent your time elsewhere. With Tantric loving, there is no goal. There is a purpose however, and that purpose is union. Every aspect of your Tantric loving serves that purpose. Your intention is to merge with your lover in all aspects - body, mind, heart and soul - not just body. You can help this along by looking at your lover differently. Look for the glory, the beauty and the wonder in your playmate and in yourself and let that shine.

Create a sacred space: room, body and mind

You can transform an ordinary space into a sacred space. To do this, takes only a few minutes and costs little or nothing. First, clean the room. If it is evening, dim the lights and use candles. Position candles all around the room and bring in some plants, also a bowl of fruit is very sensual. You may wish to have a bottle of wine to share. Make up the bed with clean linens and have lots of pillows handy. Create your own rituals with sweet grass, incense, and musical instruments.