Change your Sex Style!

Sexual pleasure comes in a wide range of flavors - and everyone has a favorite. Insisting on always going back for more of the same may get boring once in a while. A new style may be just what you need to boost the passion meter in your relationship. So start finding the right mix, shake it, baby!

Lustful - Lustful sex can be selfish, selfless, an itch that must be scratched - right now, thank you, and hurry up about it. But it's also a way for a woman to enjoy sex for the sake of sex. Even in long-term marriages, there are times when it feels good to have a quickie. What's great about true randiness is how catching it is. If your partner isn't feeling particularly sexy but you´re feeling lust crazed, the mood will amp up in seconds. This feeling of power is a further turn-on! And if you  have trouble with gritty sex because you think that you married your lust mate not soul mate it doesn't mean that you and a lusty mood should remain strangers in the night.

Spiritual - When a couple comes together in bed with that deep sense of appreciation for the sheer fact of having each other, it feels like a spiritual awakening - or reawakening. Sometimes these soulful encounters come about as a result of some preceding event, like illness or some other crisis. A spiritual awakening can develop during sexual intimacy when everything just feels very special and very loving. Be open to notice small moments, such a mood. Tell your partner how you feel just then, and let the same feeling flow into lovemaking.